Small gestures with big meaning

Faculty and students deliver comfort to patients through hand-crafted symbols

By Jill Pease

Sharon DiFino seated at a classroom table displaying numerous small, striped wooden cut‑out shapes arranged on paper; one hand is extended toward the objects. In the background, another person sits at a desk working with small items, with notebooks and a water bottle visible.
Sharon DiFino, Ph.D., with some of the comfort symbols she carved during recovery from long COVID.

On a spring afternoon, students in the University of Florida chapter of the National Student Speech Language Hearing Association gathered to package carved wooden symbols with handwritten messages of comfort, care and encouragement.

The palm-sized carvings — designed to slip into a pocket or shaped for holding like a worry stone — were on their way to patients receiving cancer treatment at UF Health Shands Hospital. Those who receive them will likely never know the person who crafted them, or how meaningful the act of making them became during her own healing.

For the carvings’ creator, Sharon DiFino, Ph.D., a clinical assistant professor in the Department of Speech, Language and Hearing Sciences at the UF College of Public Health and Health Professions, woodworking began as a way to focus on something besides illness as she recovered from long COVID. The new hobby gave DiFino, a self-described “health freak,” an outlet for her frustration at experiencing physical limitations.

“I wanted to distract myself, and working with something organic was very soothing,” DiFino said. “I’ve always loved wood since I was a child, and this allowed me to create something that could not only help me, but maybe somebody else.”

The project began with a neighbor giving DiFino some recycled wood scraps, refurbished tools and instructions on basic carving techniques. She found the activity was not too tiring and allowed her to take rest breaks when needed. As she researched designs for her creations, she came across the idea of “comfort symbols,” objects that may provide personal meaning to the owner and are often shared in healthcare or missionary settings.

DiFino created a multitude of wooden symbols: hearts, Gator heads, musical notes, animals, leaves, musical instruments, the African symbol of beauty known as a duafe and the American Sign Language sign for “I love you,” to name just a few. She starts by cutting out shapes with a scroll saw, then refines the designs with chisels and other hand tools. Each piece is sanded to a smooth finish and treated with non-toxic mineral oil to preserve the wood for repeated handling.

“Chipping away, so to speak, helped me get outside of thinking about me and my personal situation, and helped me move forward,” DiFino said.

Group of people posing together in a classroom behind a table covered with small red drawstring gift bags, each with a tag attached. The bags appear to contain small wooden items visible through the mesh. The group is arranged in two rows, facing the camera, with desks, chairs, a wall clock, and windows with blinds in the background.
DiFino and members of the UF chapter of the National Student Speech Language Hearing Association with packaged comfort symbols ready for delivery to patients receiving cancer treatment.

Over time, DiFino amassed more than 200 comfort symbols. As faculty adviser for UF’s National Student Speech Language Hearing Association chapter, or NSSLHA, DiFino approached Kathryn Davis, the group’s service director, about incorporating the carvings into a service project. They decided to give them to patients receiving cancer care, a population with special significance for DiFino. Throughout her career in speech-language pathology, she has worked closely with patients with head and neck cancer and also lost her mother to cancer.

“It was important to me as a mentor to show students that even small gestures can be very big,” DiFino said. “I tell my students that as therapists, compassion is equally as important as knowledge and skill set.”

NSSLHA members paired each comfort symbol with a note explaining that the carvings had been created by a rehabilitation therapist using recycled wood and rehabbed tools, and expressing wishes of strength, comfort and good health during recovery.

“As future speech and hearing professionals, we got a glimpse into how small actions such as wood carvings can greatly impact someone’s life,” said Davis, who is pursuing a double major in communication sciences and disorders and music performance. “This experience allowed us to see how our careers as future healthcare professionals will bring similar joy and happiness that we will be providing to patients one day.”

Davis coordinated with Blair DeLaet and Stephanie Reed in the Department of Medicine Division of Hematology and Oncology at the UF College of Medicine to deliver more than 30 comfort symbols for patients.

Group of people posing together in a classroom behind a table covered with small red drawstring gift bags, each with a tag attached. The bags appear to contain small wooden items visible through the mesh. The group is arranged in two rows, facing the camera, with desks, chairs, a wall clock, and windows with blinds in the background.
Racks of carvings in DiFino’s home, ready to share with others who may need comfort.

“The wood carvings were beautifully crafted, and the individual notes added a meaningful personal touch,” said Reed, the division’s manager of health care administration. “I believe each patient who receives one will feel genuinely honored knowing that someone they have never met took the time to think of them and create something with care and intention.”

DiFino continues her wood carving, filling racks in her home with symbols she hopes will carry special significance for those who receive them — small, tangible reminders of life beyond illness, and of the interests, passions and identities that define each recipient.

“As therapists, we look at the whole person, not only what patients are facing in treatment, but what they enjoyed in their lives before they got sick,” DiFino said. “Addressing their emotional needs is so important to rehabilitation and recovery.”